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Whatever it is, you’re feeling off about what happened. Here are some guidelines on how to navigate yourself and put the budding relationship back on track. I’m curious to understand what you heard me say.” There are subtle differences in the way men and women talk and listen. Hopefully you even enjoyed yourself during the experience. You simply had sex with a guy you like sooner than you’d prefer, and from that, you realized what you prefer. Whatever it is, before you have a conversation, you need to know your thoughts, feelings and decisions on what’s most in alignment with you. Ideally, have the conversation in person, but set a context first so you’re not dropping the news right before the trailers at the movie theater. It also helps him understand that you’re not blaming him. Own your role in the experience and hopefully he does, too.So how do you know if maybe you slept with him just a wee bit too early?
I really like you and want to make this special.” you’ve already said, “Yes. Remember also that, because you fear rejection – naturally – you might be tempted to take the edge off by adding, “Oh, never mind. Just forget it…” Don’t sabotage your strength by wussing out like that. Who knows, he might have been waiting for you to say those words.Look, the reality is that most women do sleep with guys way sooner than they’d like to. But every guy I’ve ever talked to about this agrees that: 1) They wouldn’t have cared if it was just one or two more dates in the future – as long as they KNEW it was going to happen and they weren’t being toyed with.– Sometimes yeah it was for fun, and you let it just be that. (Getting led on sucks.) 2) They always felt a bit let down when it happens too soon.No matter what he decides in the end, then he’ll respect your authenticity.So, even if he isn’t ready for a serious relationship, he’ll reciprocate your honesty.