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Your own emotions are erratic, and it would be easy for you to get infatuated with anyone who treats you with dignity, respect, and warmth.
I have seen many men and women devastated by such an experience.
Together for 11 years, married for 10, 6 year old child. He wouldn’t wear the ring, wouldn’t hold my hand or kiss me in public, wouldn’t talk to me at parties, was just a jerk, not a man. We would stand in front of the mirror, naked, and he would only look at his own body and say what a great body he’s got. And just out of boredom I joined an online dating site and started talking to a few people. He was interesting and showing a huge interest in me, in how I felt, etc. And when he stood behind me, put his arms around me and held me really strong and rubbed me for 10 minutes, I didn’t want this moment to end and almost cried. We’ve been seeing each other since then and started to want to see each other more and more. But I feel absolutely NO physical attraction any more. I agreed to give him a chance and promised to stop any contact with my ‘boyfriend’. I don’t want to go through a divorce because of the child but then, should I stay unhappy? It’s so frustrating, and when I talk to young people, or even people considering second marriage, I tell them to look at the person’s parents because that is what their husband or wife will most likely turn into.
My husband’s excuse for not being a good husband or partner is that his father didn’t treat his mom nice. Never touched me, even though I asked so many times and said how important that was to me. And then pinched a bit of my skin to show me that I have half an inch of fat on my belly. Last month I told my husband that our marriage stopped working for me. Let’s get to the part of your post that really struck a nerve with me.
The big question is, what kind of wounded animal is she? The problem here is, she could be either, both or neither all in the same day. The other thing most of these women go through is something I call "The First Ride at Disneyland Syndrome." Think about it. But do you want to keep going on the same ride again and again, never experiencing the others?
Just be ever-vigilant and watch for any signs that may indicate it's time to back off. You go to Disneyland and you get on the first ride.