Dating moving too quickly
The deceased will always live on in the hearts of this who knew him or her but this world is meant for the living—not the dead.It will continue to move forward whether we’re breathing or not.Today’s Widower Wednesday column comes from a comment that was posted on my Dating and Marriage: One Regret post.I thought the commenter asked some good questions and raised some interesting points.In order to put some meaning back in their lives they try to “fix” their life by finding another woman who can add some meaning they feel is missing.I felt that way and a lot of the widower’s I’ve talked to had similar feelings. Error Banner.fade_out.modal_overlay.modal_overlay .modal_wrapper.modal_overlay [email protected](max-width:630px)@media(max-width:630px).modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:hover:before. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_input. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_spinner.
Yes, the world may stop for a day or two—at least for those who knew the person; but it will quickly start back up again.
Even though in our conscious minds we know he needs to move forward, we are caught off guard.
And with this new "relationship" we are smacked in the face with the realization that what was supposed to be forever has come to an end, suddenly it seems.
Deep inside of us women we wonder, 'is it that easy to move on when we go?
' And that is frightening and extremely sad for us.