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The intimidating person might have…Mini exercise: It’s hard to think about shortcomings when we’re standing eye to eye with someone who intimidates us.
Instead, spend a moment right now to think about a specific person who intimidates you and what that person’s shortcomings might be.
They protect themselves below their perfect surface – and the price they pay is becoming less approachable (and that means less high-quality relationships).
Lesson learned: Most often, intimidation is a defense, not a tool to suppress others.
First of all, here are two changes in mindset we need to understand: Few walk around in life trying to intimidate others.
Often, they don’t even understand that they are intimidating.
– Alexis I got lots of questions about that from both men and women.
Some examples that came up was talking to your boss or manager, talk to tall people, good looking people, mean/unpleasant people, and those you’re attracted to.
We want to make people like being Lesson learned: When you’re around people who intimidate you, don’t fall into the trap of trying to prove yourself to them. Instead, keep to the universal principles of likability.But when it comes to those who intimidate you, you need a powerful method to take them down from the mental pedestal you’ve put them on.One powerful way to do that is to think about what insecurities they might have.You don’t want to look at these weaknesses from a bully’s perspective, but from a compassionate’s perspective: When I give this advice to my program participants, many instantly reply that “but the person I’m intimidated by doesn’t seem to have any weaknesses”.But when I ask them to probe deeper, they’re surprised to find a lot.